Maximizing your personal growth is a worthy
pursuit. In fact, many people make personal development their primary purpose
in life. But even if you just want to smooth up your rough edges, having an
effective mindset for personal growth will make the process more enjoyable and
your efforts more fruitful.
Your mindset can make all the difference!
Consider developing these
qualities to optimize your growth:
- An open mind. Personal
growth requires considering new perspectives, ideas, habits, and beliefs.
If you’re dead set on approaching the world in a particular way, you’re
greatly limiting your growth. Only when you are open to all the various
possibilities can your growth be maximized.
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Consider that if you already had
an optimal perspective and approach to everything, you’d already have
everything you want. You may be mistaken
about multiple things. Are you willing to figure out what those things are?
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Are you open to the idea that you
might change your objectives based on new things that you discover about the
world and yourself?
- An interest in learning.
Are you willing to learn about goal setting? Overcoming fear? Discipline?
Communication skills? Reading about new ideas? There’s a lot that you
don’t know that you need to know if you’re going to become everything that
you’re capable of being.
- The willingness to fail.
Trying new things requires failure. It’s
rare and lucky to succeed at something the first time. Whether you’re
learning to be a better public speaker, taking a class, or learning how to
play the violin, there will be failure.
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Failure provides the opportunity
to learn and then to apply that knowledge during future attempts.
- The desire to experiment.
Should you eat a vegan, vegetarian, or paleo diet? Try them all and see
what works for you. You can’t be certain what you want to have, do, or be
until you’ve experimented and found the best answer for yourself.
- The ability to set your ego aside. Your ego is a
major obstacle when it comes to maximizing your personal growth. Your ego makes you more likely to be certain you’re right when
you’re wrong. It leads you to blame others when the fault is your own. It also
makes you afraid to fail.
- Value improvement over perfection. Daily improvement is incredibly powerful. It’s not possible to be
great at something instantly. When you can get excited about improving by
1% at something, you have a great mindset for personal growth.
- Patience. Personal growth
is an ongoing process. It may take decades to become the best possible
version of yourself. Even figuring out the ideal sleeping schedule can
take several weeks of trial and error. It takes time to get over your social
anxiety or lose weight. Patience is an important factor!
- Determination. Changing and
growing isn’t for the weak. It’s important to be determined and committed
to changing yourself and your life.
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Determination is a valuable asset
to have in many facets of life. Even
people with minimal talent have become incredibly successful through great
determination.
Personal growth is challenging, but it can be
a lot easier with a mindset that supports your desire to grow. Personally, I
have found that being open to new perspectives and being determined were the
two qualities that helped me the most.
Your
mindset can be your shortcut to fantastic personal growth. The optimal mindset for personal growth is open, curious, determined,
and patient. Take a hard look at your mindset before continuing on your
personal development journey.
